When it comes to finding a love, it is not always easy. When we first start dating someone, there is a lot to learn about them. You might really like them, but how  do you know if you have compatible values, goals and interests that can keep you together through thick and thin?

According to experts, the key to is to ask questions, but not just any questions, the right questions. So when you’re ready, ditch the small talk and get down to business! We have the top 5 questions that will provide the perfect compatibility test for you!

  • 1

    How do you spend your free time?

    Of course this seems like one of those innocent questions. But believe it or not, a person’s answer says a lot. If you are someone who loves getting up early and spending time at the gym, and your partner says they love sleeping in til noon, well then that may be a red flag.

  • 2

    What is your attachment style?

    Everyone is different when it comes to space. This is about how much closeness one can tolerate before getting overwhelmed or how much closeness one can do without until they panic.

  • 3

    What are your spiritual beliefs?

    Don’t get us wrong, religion and spiritual beliefs can be a big deal but don’t necessarily have to be a deal breaker. This question will tell how far or close your beliefs are. It can tell if it will be something you both can work with, if there are some differences.

  • 4

    What is the most interesting you’ve read or heard recently?

    This helps to find out what inspires them. It doesn’t have to be a book, but maybe a type of music or something else. This will help show what inspires their intellect. Always interesting and important.

  • 5

    Can you depend on this person? -

    Last but definitely not least...can you really depend on this person? It is important to know if you both are able to support each other through anything.